Lying!!! Ughhh

A lot of people have been lying to me lately. People who are close to me. I hate knowing someone is lying, but not being able to tell them that you know. I feel like if you really truly care about me, you'll want to tell me that you're lying. If I have to call you out on it, our relationship is not worth it anyways. One of my favorite sayings is "secrets secrets are no fun, secrets secrets hurt someone!" It sounds juvenile, but its true. Lying and keeping secrets only hurt both parties, and lying never makes anything better, it only makes things worse. I talk about how lying is a pet peeve of mine, ALL THE TIME! I don't know if that just makes it harder for others to fess up about lying, or easier. Not that telling the truth is easy, but if you know that its important to someone, isn't it worth it to tell the truth? I dont know. I feel like sometimes I have different standards than others in my relationships. For example, I always put my family, and my friends above someone that I'm dating or interested in. Yet people close to me don't do that. You shouldn't have to tell someone that they need to be nicer or more considerate in the friendship..the other person should just want to...obviously, I'm kind of non-confrontational, but still...come one people. We're not five anymore, its not all about YOU! We're supposed to be loving on each other and putting others first, not doing whatever makes us happy but will hurt others in the end. OK, done venting :)